Friday, September 30, 2016

What RamP's Reading (Oct'16)

Influence established Rob Cialdini as the world’s foremost authority on the science of persuasion, winning plaudits from such figures as Dan Pink, Chip Heath and Tom Peters. In Pre-suasion, Cialdini builds on his investigations into the subtle world of influence to reveal that the best persuaders succeed not only because of what they say or how they say it, but because of what they do in the moment before they deliver their message. In the process he draws on a series of compelling case studies and a profound understanding of human psychology to offer a ground-breaking work that is both fascinating and brilliantly practical.

Creativity is crucial to business success. But too often, even the most innovative organization quickly becomes a "giant hairball"--a tangled, impenetrable mass of rules, traditions, and systems, all based on what worked in the past--that exercises an inexorable pull into mediocrity. Gordon McKenzie worked at Hallmark Cards for thirty years, many of which he spent inspiring his colleagues to slip the bonds of Corporate Normalcy and rise to orbit--to a mode of dreaming, daring and doing above and beyond the rubber-stamp confines of the administrative mind-set. It will be a must-read for any manager looking for new ways to invigorate employees, and any professional who wants to achieve his or her best, most self-expressive, most creative and fulfilling work.

Ego is our biggest enemy. Early in our careers, it can prevent us from learning and developing our talents. When we taste success, ego can blind us to our own faults, alienate us from others and lead to our downfall. In failure, ego is devastating and makes recovery all the more difficult. It is only by identifying our ego, speaking to its desires and systematically disarming it that we can create our best work. Organised into bite-sized observations featuring characters and narratives that illustrate themes and life lessons designed to resonate, uplift and inspire, Ego is the Enemy shows how you can be humble in your aspirations, gracious in your success and resilient in your failures. It is an inspiring and timely reminder that humility and confidence are still our greatest friends when confronting the challenges of a culture which tends to fan the flames of ego and encourage the cult of personality at all costs.

Sunday, September 11, 2016

The Richest man in Babylon

I'm highly indebted to a mentor who asked me to read "The Richest man in Babylon" when I had just started my career and I've diligently followed the advice and have been reaping and continue to reap benefits. If you want to read only one book on money management I highly recommend this (free pdf here).

Here are the 7 laws. Like gravity, they are universal and unchanging.

LO, MONEY IS PLENTIFUL
FOR THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND
THE SIMPLE RULES OF ITS ACQUISITION

  1. Start thy purse to fattening 
  2. Control thy expenditures 
  3. Make thy gold multiply 
  4. Guard thy treasures from loss 
  5. Make of thy dwelling a profitable investment 
  6. Insure a future income 
  7. Increase thy ability to earn 


And here are the rules for the Gold:

  • Gold comes gladly and in increasing quantity to any man who will put by not less than one-tenth of his earnings to create an estate for his future and that of his family
  • Gold labours diligently and contentedly for the wise owner who finds for it profitable employment, multiplying even as the flocks of the field
  • Gold clings to the protection of the cautious owner who invests it under the advice of men wise in its handling
  • Gold slips away from the man who invests it in business or purposes with which he is not familiar or which are not approved by those skilled in its keep
  • Gold flees the man who would force it to impossible earnings or who follows the alluring advice of tricksters and schemers or who trusts it to his own inexperience and romantic desires in investment

Sunday, September 4, 2016

The two pains



There are only two pains:

1. The pain of discipline
2. The pain of regret

The pain of discipline weighs in grams and the pain of regret weighs in tons. Choose your pains wisely.

Sunday, August 28, 2016

What is your reputation?

How often do you bother thinking about the reputation you've built? Reputation can make or break a career. You many enjoy reading the following things on reputation I had learnt from Seth Godin:

1. Your reputation has as much as impact as you what you actually do
2. Early assumptions about you is really sticky
3. You cannot "game" your reputation. Even if you did, it doesn't last.
4. The best way to maintain reputation is to keep doing things that you are proud of.
5. Good work is of maximum value only if the people get your reputation right
6. Many people do not bother building a reputation at all!
7. Be prepared to live with your reputation for long, because you need to
8. Most important: Because not everyone can talk to you, your reputation is built by others.

Be your reputation, early and often, and you're more likely to have a reputation you're glad to own.

Sunday, August 21, 2016

Are you hampering your own growth?

Argue for your limitations and sure enough, they're yours - Richard Bach, Illusions

Why anyone would want to do it? Because of the many things we see as ourselves, beliefs that we are many things we are not. If we see ourselves as something that we are not, we try to do everything to protect the story we are telling ourselves. We get so caught up in self-preservation that we close all the avenues of possibilities. "But, I'm a LabVIEW guy, I can't learn C" or "I'm a DSP guy, I don't seem to have a knack for understanding APIs" - sounds familiar? While self-preservation is essential, if it crosses a limit, we start protecting things which might not be required. 




As a first step in moving towards growth, start watching out where you've started identifying with your limitations and arguing for them. 

Whether you think you can or think you can't - you're right - Henry Ford